Monday, August 15, 2005

Negative.

The most painful state of being is remembering the future,
particularly one you can never have.
-Soren Kierkegaard

31 Comments:

Anonymous Jenn said...

I'm so sorry Mellie. *hugs* That sucks.

August 15, 2005 5:02 PM  
Blogger k #2 said...

Oh Mellie...as you already saw on my post... I join you in your sorrow and despair. Here is an internet hug and a toast with a beer....at least, that is what I am drinking right now!

We'll get through this somehow.

August 15, 2005 5:17 PM  
Blogger K said...

I'm so sorry.

August 15, 2005 5:29 PM  
Blogger P. said...

Damn - I am so sorry Mellie.

August 15, 2005 6:05 PM  
Blogger Jamila said...

Damn. I'm sorry Mell.

August 15, 2005 6:06 PM  
Anonymous Jen said...

I'm so sorry, sweetie.

August 15, 2005 6:33 PM  
Anonymous Z said...

Mellie, i'm so, so very sorry about the negative. damn, i wish had some more comforting words but there really are none. i'm just so sorry. you're in my thoughts as always.

August 15, 2005 6:43 PM  
Anonymous kitty_lover said...

crud. :(

August 15, 2005 7:23 PM  
Anonymous Susan / holdingpattern said...

I'm sorry Mellie. I wish the universe would cut you a break.

Also, I'm sorry that that "anonymous" person is spamming your blog.

August 15, 2005 7:35 PM  
Blogger Daren said...

I'm so very sorry about the negative. You and your husband are in my prayers. Very sorry.

August 15, 2005 8:54 PM  
Anonymous Korinras said...

I'm so sorry.

August 15, 2005 8:59 PM  
Blogger Susie said...

I'm so sorry, Mellie.

August 15, 2005 9:51 PM  
Blogger Suz said...

Oh, Mellie. I'm so, so sorry.

August 15, 2005 10:39 PM  
Blogger Donna said...

What a heart-breaking quote...you are in my thoughts.

August 15, 2005 11:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Mellie

I am so sorry and I am thinking of you - sending you hugs and chocolate.

Ally

August 16, 2005 8:46 AM  
Blogger Chee Chee said...

Mellie - I am so sorry. Pls. try to take care of yourself.

August 16, 2005 9:06 AM  
Blogger Spanglish said...

You're in my thoughts Mellie. I wish it had turned out differently for you.

August 16, 2005 9:57 AM  
Anonymous anne said...

I am so sorry. I am thinking of you.

August 16, 2005 10:01 AM  
Anonymous Molly said...

Oh, shit. So sorry.

August 16, 2005 10:41 AM  
Blogger Dramalish said...

I've been holding off on posting because I wasn't sure what to say or if you'd want to here it from me anyway...

But I want to tell you that sorry doesn't begin to express how much I wanted to refresh your blog and see a different post yesterday.

I know you will be able to make it through the next stage of life that will lead you to parenthood. Please hold on to Hope. She's a real beeeeech, but I know she's going to actually deliver for you in time.

I'm just sorry it wasn't this time.
-D.

August 16, 2005 11:52 AM  
Anonymous MichelleL said...

I'm sorry. The quote was spot on. I do hope you will feel better soon.

August 16, 2005 1:10 PM  
Anonymous B Mare said...

Gutted for you. So sorry sweetie.

August 16, 2005 1:36 PM  
Blogger Larisa said...

I am so so so sorry. I was so hopeful for you. Grrr.

August 16, 2005 6:33 PM  
Blogger Mony said...

Oh Ms Mellie.
The disappointment. It is dismal news. Don't you know it.
Can you feel us all embracing you? If only we could make it better. My heart is with yours. I am so, so sorry.

August 17, 2005 1:11 AM  
Blogger Pamplemousse said...

Sorry, Mellie. I always believe in the help that comes from lots of crying and snot.

August 17, 2005 11:19 AM  
Blogger Kristi said...

I just happened upon your blog today for the first time. I can't tell you how sorry I am, but I can offer you sympathy because I know exactly what you're going through. I've been in your shoes. I have unexplained IF as well. I've had all the tests. I've had six failed IUIs (3 Clomid, and three injectible). I'm 29 and doing my first IVF cycle next month. You are courageous and strong to endure what you're going through. I haven't even had the courage to blog about IF on my own blog. My thoughts are with you. Email me anytime if you need to talk to someone who knows your struggle.

August 17, 2005 1:39 PM  
Anonymous thalia said...

Oh mellie I'm so sorry. It's just awful.

August 18, 2005 6:43 PM  
Blogger MsPrufrock said...

I'm sorry Mellie. As someone that has faced that post-IUI come down a few times, I hate that other people also know how it feels.

August 19, 2005 5:19 PM  
Blogger Sheryl said...

{hugs} Mellie... I'm so sorry :(

August 20, 2005 11:49 AM  
Blogger Rusty said...

I'm so sorry.

August 22, 2005 12:09 AM  
Blogger April said...

I am so incredibly sorry.

You are in my thoughts.

August 25, 2005 12:01 PM  

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